AFFINITY GROUPS

Affinity Groups came out of Potluck go-arounds when an individual would bring up a life situation that she thought other members might have  in common and might want to explore together.  These groups ranged from a Dream Group, How to Self-Market, Working the I Ching, to a discussion of Childlessness.

There are no credits earned or spent in affinity groups.  The person who calls for the groups organizes it.  The groups itself sets up the parameters in which to discuss the subject and share their ideas and concerns.  These groups have brought together women in fresh juxtaposition of thinking and sharing that has enlightened and strengthened the sense of community at the same time acknowledging the range of interests and concern both individually and collectively. These affinity groups can be  more intimate than ordinary support groups because of the solidity and consistency of the community.

Some examples are as follows:

Taking care of older parents:  This group met for several years to share information about practical and psychological issues that members encounter while caring for their older parents. Meetings were called as needed � that is when a member was facing a crisis such as a decision whether to use a nursing home. Later we came together to hear the story of a parentís dying and to grieve together.

Self-expression Group:  The only requirement for this group is that those who attend must bring a contribution of some kind, a poem, a dance, or an art piece that can be shared. Or the group will take a writing assignment for the evening based on a theme, write it and then share it. The group adds fun and creativity to our regular gatherings.